How I Coach

Because each Professional Coach has his or her own style of coaching clients.
I would like you to know how I coach, what I expect of my clients,
and what my clients can expect of me.

I Expect Your Best.
If you are hiring me, then you are probably ready to do and be your best. And if you aren’t doing your best, I will ask you to so. If you can’t do that at the moment, I will understand and do what you need to be heard and helped back on your path.

I Make Direct Requests.
From time to time, I will make a direct request, like "Will you accomplish X by the end of the month? You many accept the request, counter-offer (like say what you can do) or decline (rare).

I Give Straight Advice.
If I am sure of the situation, and you’re open to it, I will make specific suggestions on how to handle a problem or how to go for an opportunity. If I am not sure, I will say so. Honesty is one of my values. I am straight and expect the same from you. Regardless, use the best of what I say and use your own judgment.

I Don’t Do Psychotherapy with Coaching Clients
While I am trained and licensed as a psychotherapist, coaching is an entirely different process. Coaching is more proactive and achievement based, while psychotherapy focuses on more deep seated and emotionally based problems. If this is unclear, please bring the subject up at one of our meetings.

I Don’t Step Over Much.
When I hear a funny tone in your voice, or notice something amiss, I will ask you about it. Often, it is these small moments which offer the chance to resolve something.

I Give Homework.
I usually ask that my clients come up with two or three goals, actions or breakthroughs to have between one call and the next. If it is too much, say so. If you want more, just ask.

You Are Expected To Use Me, Not Depend On Me.
As your coach, I am a resource and presence for you to use to your best advantage. I ask that my clients use me as the resource and friend that I am, but not to let themselves get into the position of needing me (or coaching).

I Am Here.
I want to hear it all. If you have a personal problem, are upset with something (even me or the coaching), are just starting to realize something big, can’t wait to share a breakthrough, please call or e-mail me. Anytime.